Grief and Bereavement

The hardest part when loosing a life long companion is learning to live without them - Olly
Walker et al. conducted studies on dogs' experiences of grief. While every animal is different and deals with grief in a different way and timeline, the researchers found a few similar patterns in how our pets experience grief after a loss. When dealing with a grieving pet, maintain household routines as much as possible and encourage your pet to engage in its usual activities. Here are some signs that your pet may be grieving and some tips on how to help.
Symptom
Solution
Animals can become clingy or needy and seek out more affection from their humans or other companion animals.
Take some time off and spend it with your grieving animal. Give them extra attention and physical contact.
A small percentage of animals may become less affectionate or they may try to avoid contact with people and other animals.
If your pet needs some time alone, give them space to grieve, but let them know you are available in case they need you by staying in the same rom, or sitting nearby.
Loss of appetite or a decrease in appetite. Eating slower or leaving food uneaten for longer.
Give your pet higher value fresh food. Try to feed them using enrichment that they enjoy. If they don't eat at all for 2 days or more contact your Vet
They may seek out their deceased companion's favourite places or lie in the spots where they used to be.
Avoid changing the layout too drastically, and give your pet the opportunity to occupy or sniff their companion's areas.
Some pets may look for a place to hide or try to find a perch to sit on
Allow your pet to find a comfortable spot and move things to help it move around more easily if necessary. Position its hiding spot in an area with low traffic, where it is less likely to encounter triggers or be disturbed.
Vocalising, crying, barking & whimpering
Avoid punishing them for vocalising. Where possible explain to your neighbours before hand and prepare them just incase. Redirect the dogs towards things they like to do such as play, enrichment a walk etc.
Changes in sleeping habits either excessive sleeping or sleeping at erratic times.
Give your dog a quiet place to rest. If they struggle to get enough sleep or you are worried about their sleeping habits contact your local Vet, they may be able to prescribe something to help.

The Human Side of Grief

Often, it's not just the animals that are grieving. The humans are dealing with the loss of a family member, as well. Becoming overly emotional around your dog can affect how they feel as well. Its important to understand you both are grieving and you may be at different stages of grief.
Stages of Grief:
Everyone grieves in their unique way and at their own pace. Even if you feel like you are coping well, it is always important to seek out help and support during this difficult time. Grief is a natural and inevitable part of life, but it can be a challenging and overwhelming experience. Understanding the five stages of grief can help you navigate through this process more effectively. These stages are denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. By recognizing which stage you are in, you can better understand your emotions and cope with them in a healthy manner. It is also important to remember that every individual handles grief differently. While some may go through all five stages, others may experience a different order or may not experience all five stages at all. It is crucial not to compare your grieving process to others and to allow yourself to grieve in your own way. No matter how strong or capable you are, seeking help and support during this time is crucial. Whether it is through therapy, support groups, or talking to a trusted friend or family member, reaching out for help can provide you with the necessary tools to navigate through your grief and come out stronger on the other side. Remember that it is okay not to be OK and that it takes time to heal from loss. Lean on your support system, take care of yourself, and trust in the healing process. You are not alone in your grief, and with the right support and resources, you can overcome it and come out stronger and more resilient.

Reach out for help

The organizations listed below are equipped and available to assist.
Lifeline 13 11 14Lifeline offers a 24-hour counselling service. Phone 13 11 14 (local call charges apply) or visit the website www.lifeline.org.au The Grief Centre of WA - 0404 658 052 Grief Australia - 1800 642 066 Griefline - Helpline 1300 845 745 8am to 8pm: 7 days (AEST) Rest Your Paws - 0422 157 675 Pets and People - 1300 431 450 Keystone Counselling Ph: 92563663 or 04171838971/95 Bannister Road, Canning Vale Joondalup Counselling Ph: 0410461588Unit 6/40 Central Walk, Joondalup
Metro Counselling Ph: 944832105/209 Warwick Rd, Duncraig
More resources:
Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islanders - Death and Sorry Business Centre for Clinical Interventions.Gov Depression Information Sheet - Grief and Bereavement Facebook - Pet Eden - Grief Resources for Pet Parents VCA - How can I help my dog cope with grief? RSPCA - Grieving pets: How a pet’s death can affect your other pets

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